When you hear anyone say that they are "keeping it real" or "telling it like it is" then more than likely what they are keeping real is not entirely what the rest of us are looking at. Not only that the only people who say they are keeping it real are the women in the world we live in, and even then it's not real. These are people who state their opinions aggressively upon the rest of the world. Yes it's true that men cheat on women, but it is also true that women cheat on men.
There are women out there who tries to control the relationship they are in. The men they are with are can not hang out with their friends and in extreme cases the man can't even visit with relatives. All the men are allowed to do in those relationships is go to work and come home. These men are forbbiden to go out in public by themselves because the women have to let the world know that this is their man and no one can touch. These women are also the women that makes one of the biggest mistakes that all women do (no exceptions) and that is taking upon themselves to have sex when they feel darn good and ready. That's when the men start planning their escape, and starts cheating. Then the women get upset and try to figure out why their men cheated.
The problem is everything I explaned about the ladies apply to the men as well. No body wants to keep it real when they find out that little tidbit. When it comes to being cheated on they don't want to face the fact that maybe they screwed up. This has been going on since the sixties and is part of the battle of the sexes. Every one who hears this kind of thing tends to lean toward denile. they each tend to say the other is worse, and I tend to aggree with both sides on this issue. Maybe if they spent more time working together rather than trying to gain the upper hand the relationship may work out in the long run. Knowing that each has strengths and each have weaknesses they can work together to build a strong bond that no one will be able to break. That my friends is keeping it really real.
